Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Creating a No Judgment Zone:  
Recently, I took some time out of my busy schedule to spend the weekend with my daughter.   And as we were talking she began to tell me about one of her 13 yr. old classmates. First she stated the little girl thought she was pregnant and has been really getting verbally abused at home by her mother. She told my daughter and another young man that she was going to kill herself by the end of the week. Becoming alerted, Jaihde began to tell this young lady that death really isn’t the answer to the problem and if you kill yourself you will kill the baby as well so you take two lives instead of one. As my heart cried out, Jaihde went on to say that she told the girl that you really don’t want to kill yourself because you told someone. What you are really doing is crying out for help and we are here to listen. So as Jaihde consoled the girl that finally broke down crying, the young man stated that he was going to the bathroom but instead went to the office to get her some help. The young lady was upset initially but the young man told her, what if you would have killed yourself after telling us this news. Your death would have been on my hands for the rest of life. I didn’t judge you because I want you to live.
          As a Christian mother hearing this story my heart was overwhelmed because there has been an atmosphere set to where my child know right from wrong, but she also knows how to apply that Godly principle to others. I know that raising a child, especially teenagers can be extremely hard but we have to take time out time to spend with our children, listen to our children and most importantly show them that you love them (not buying their love). Creating a no a judgment zone for our youth can and will potentially save one of their lives because the pressures of this world is hard on our children.  From daily occurrence of bullying to pressures to join a gang and from confusion about sexual orientation to experimenting with drugs, our youth are often times overwhelmed to a degree of not having a place to turn or a voice to champion for them.  As a single mother I’m faced with an even greater challenge of not having a male figure in the house, but I don’t try to compensate to be that role model- I simply show her how a young lady should be treated and respected. My goal with my child is always to create an escape to where she can always confide in me with no judgment or condemnation. Parents we have to stop tearing our youth down when they make a mistake but instead, instruct them on where they went wrong and allow them to try again. After all, God does that on a daily basis for us- it’s called forgiveness. So as I close, please remember- creating a no judgment zone starts in the heart then it flows to your attitude.
Elizabeth Siplin

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Blessed Words Freedom Crossing Book Signing

Blessed Words Book Signing at Freedom Crossing Ft. Bliss, Tx
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Monday, August 29, 2011

The Transition of My Heart

Somewhere between the transition of being angry, being broken and just plain giving up- you crept in and healed my heart. God I thank you for replacing the long nights of crying from the unspoken hurt, to now filling my evenings with unadulterated praise. And now if I cry, it’s because your glory has filled the room and my heart cannot contain the emotions of fully loving you.
Dear God- I can love again, I can smile again, and yes I can feel again because I gave again- myself to you. In giving, I wait patiently for my mate that you will bless me with. In giving, I service to the upmost- to the Almighty God. Yes, Lord I surrender all- in order to be all for you.
So Lord I thank you for healing my heart, and taking the time to give me a fresh start- to move, to breathe and be more like you. And to replenish your kingdom with the things I do. It’s so nice to know that you are on my side- without you Lord I would have never survived.

Wednesday, August 24, 2011


Finding Peace In The Midst of a Storm



There are times when life seems like you are trapped inside of a hurricane. The gale force winds that toss you to and fro, the rains that drench you down to the bone, and the lightning that strikes you so sharp until your life literally seems like it’s over. And the forecast seems quite deem when you look at the overall situation. From domestic violence, martial issues to singles struggling with the hope of finding the right mate- peace can be found in the mist of the storm. It’s called the “Eye.”

One of the unique things about peace is that it resides in each and every one of us. It’s just a matter of tapping into our inner soul and placing it at the forefront of our life. Many may say that they find peace in God, but I beg to differ. It’s because of the God that’s in me that I have peace- through His Holy Spirit. It’s no secret that our life situations can often time change by simply adjusting our attitude and thought process.

When my life seems to be heading in the direction of CAT 4 hurricane, I begin to make adjustments to avoid such turmoil. Having lived through an abusive relationship, I now understand that my mind set somewhat controlled the outcome of whether or not I would survive. Meaning, not only do you have to make a conscientious decision to escape, but you have to begin to change your mind set. In your mind is where peace resides. Once you find peace then you begin to clearly think.

My last thought on finding peace in the midst of a storm is that storms can so often change their courses. And whether you receive a direct impact, get hit with torrential winds, or simply get passed over can be a matter of your mind set. Don’t let your current situation dictate or still the peace that resides inside of you.


“I am leaving you with a gift- peace of mind and heart. And the peace I give isn’t like the peace the world gives. So don’t be troubled or afraid.”  John 14: 27

Friday, April 1, 2011

Am I making an impact...

           Am I making an effect on the lives of others? This is loaded question that comes with a blended answer. Why? Why because I can’t help but think about those that are being subjective to domestic abuse and violence on a daily basis. We see them, we know them but we say nothing because we don’t want to get involved. So then what effect are you making on their lives? But on the other hand, for women that are going through this situation that have children at home, or who maybe by themselves. Your life matters so you have to stop and ask yourself what effect or impact are you making on others lives?  
                People, God reminded me today that our lives matter in every capacity possible. It matters because He created and designed us with a specific purpose. When we sit back and say nothing it matters simply for the fact that a vessel of God cannot walk in their destiny because they are trapped and need assistance escaping. And when you are trapped in a situation and refuse to move, God can’t effectively use you for the ultimate purpose that you were created for.
                So today, I encourage everyone to make an impact in someone’s life. Don’t be a bystander or one giving a witness statement when it’s too late. Don’t be an abused mother that raises their children to be an abuser because you are afraid to walk away. I promise you, God will hear your prays but you make to make the first move by leaving. Step out on faith and faith (God) will carry you the rest of the way…
Psalm 46: 1-2 says that God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble. So we will not fear, even if earthquakes come and the mountains crumble into the sea…
Make this question personal for yourself- Am I making an impact on the lives of others? And if you are not, let’s make a commitment to start today…

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

I'm inspried to be moved- Because I have been delivered...

“I will not remain in a house so violet and cold.
  I will no longer sit in shame as though it’s my fault
  I will no longer catch the blows that has blacked my eyes
  I will no longer cry with blood streaked cheeks because…
  I’m inspired to be moved.”

My heart is still heavy today because not all of our women have been inspired to be moved. Yet many have ran to the open doors that have shielded them from an eternal enduring pain, but so many others have been left behind with no hope or courage to move forward. And as I ask myself, what more could I do to be a part of saving a life- my spirit echoes- continue to tell the story so that someone might be saved.
I’m encouraged to know that God has delivered so many beautiful women from the hands of bondage and formed them into vibrant Christian women serving in the church and the local communities today. Consequently, allowing them to shatter the barriers of abuse only to walk into a world of safety in the Master’s hand.
Therefore, deliverance is an awesome process that God grants to us while being transformed from one state to the other. Hence, the key for deliverance for my sisters that are still in the fight is to be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
Romans 12:1-2 says, “I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by the testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”
In this teaching by Paul, we see that God does have a perfect will for our lives and surely the violation of one’s body is not the perfect plan that He designed.  Our perfect peace comes through our worship and communing with the Almighty, but if your mind is not free to worship then you have been enslaved to the world. And I’m here to tell you that Domestic Violence is a tool of slavery and bondage that hinders many from reaching the desired end state of a right walk with God.
Unfortunately, we live in a time where we have to be moved by something. And if it’s not the Holy Spirit of God moving you then it probably isn’t worth holding on to. It’s true that man will change, your environment will change and even the people around you will change, but God is a constant that remains the same.
So, if you are one that is enslaved, entrapped, apprehended and even locked up in a relationship that consumes your mind- then you need to be delivered and transformed so that God’s perfect will for your life can be obtained. Furthermore, salvation is free only if you are willing to take it, and the process of transformation is available but you have to be willing to move…



I'm inspried to be moved- Because I have been delivered...

“I will not remain in a house so violet and cold.
  I will no longer sit in shame as though it’s my fault
  I will no longer catch the blows that has blacked my eyes
  I will no longer cry with blood streaked cheeks because…
  I’m inspired to be moved.”

My heart is still heavy today because not all of our women have been inspired to be moved. Yet many have ran to the open doors that have shielded them from an eternal enduring pain, but so many others have been left behind with no hope or courage to move forward. And as I ask myself, what more could I do to be a part of saving a life- my spirit echoes- continue to tell the story so that someone might be saved.
I’m encouraged to know that God has delivered so many beautiful women from the hands of bondage and formed them into vibrant Christian women serving in the church and the local communities today. Consequently, allowing them to shatter the barriers of abuse only to walk into a world of safety in the Master’s hand.
Therefore, deliverance is an awesome process that God grants to us while being transformed from one state to the other. Hence, the key for deliverance for my sisters that are still in the fight is to be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
Romans 12:1-2 says, “I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by the testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”
In this teaching by Paul, we see that God does have a perfect will for our lives and surely the violation of one’s body is not the perfect plan that He designed.  Our perfect peace comes through our worship and communing with the Almighty, but if your mind is not free to worship then you have been enslaved to the world. And I’m here to tell you that Domestic Violence is a tool of slavery and bondage that hinders many from reaching the desired end state of a right walk with God.
Unfortunately, we live in a time where we have to be moved by something. And if it’s not the Holy Spirit of God moving you then it probably isn’t worth holding on to. It’s true that man will change, your environment will change and even the people around you will change, but God is a constant that remains the same.
So, if you are one that is enslaved, entrapped, apprehended and even locked up in a relationship that consumes your mind- then you need to be delivered and transformed so that God’s perfect will for your life can be obtained. Furthermore, salvation is free only if you are willing to take it, and the process of transformation is available but you have to be willing to move…



I'm inspried to be moved- Because I have been delivered...


Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Finding A Place of Refuge in God…

            As I begin to reflect back over my life of abuse with my estranged loved one, I could remember the times in my home where there was no peace, no comfort and surely no safety in the location where it should have been tranquil. But consequently, it was just the opposite because an abuser has no name when it comes to claiming your innocence and stealing the joy that God intended for His precious vessels to have. I realize now after being freed from this life of “hell” that God is my refuge and there is no other place to hide but in Him.
             However, I’m saddened to see and hear that so many are still trapped in a place of dismal confusion. A place where their life seems suspended in a time zone that fails to change seasons any longer. They are simply spellbound by a myth of broken promises and unfulfilled dreams. I serve in a military where we are losing young women to domestic abuse at alarming rates. The death toll is greater than on the battle field. God has given me a license to wage war on the devil and to help set my sisters that are captive- become free. God’s message is that loud speaker that is blaring over the airwaves. It’s time to allow God to be that lover in your life that so many are desperately seeking.
            And as God began to minister to my heart He wanted me to share this message of hope with my sisters that are struggling to break free- struggling to find freedom and a place of refuge:
In the book 2 Samuel 22: 1- 4, David professed to the Lord after being delivered out of the hands of his enemies, “ The Lord is my rock and my fortress and my deliver, my shield, and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold and my refuge, my savior, you save me from violence. I call upon the Lord, who is worthy to be praised. And I am saved from my enemies…
            Precious women of God, you have to know that there is a place of quiet, a place of peace and a place of safety. It’s in God we find these things and not in man. Man will fail you every time, but God is surely a constant, unmovable and a place of refuge for you to rest your troubled mind, heal your broken heart and to restore your faith in Him.
            My heart’s desire is that through these posting someone will be delivered and set free from a life of mental, physical and emotional abuse. Again, I’m a vessel that is willing to tell my story so that God’s salvation may be issued to a lost soul today. Please share this message so that God’s word can be spread.
Help to save a life today…